snuh ([info]snuh) wrote,
@ 2009-05-10 02:26:00
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word to your moms


Mick Jones of The Clash once sang, "I wasn't born so much as I fell out", which is a notion I can get with, since my family isn't very emotionally demonstrative. That's not as bad as it sounds, since we all love each other, so I was surprised when out of the blue, my mom started letting me know that she cared for me. I was pretty perplexed and answered with eyes arched as she was waited for a response that wasn't soon forthcoming. After a few more tries, there was an explanation that she'd read in my blog how one should tell someone that you care about them. It was one of those "D'oh" moments in life, caught in a web of my own weaving.

So, on that note, it's a good time as any to mention how thankful I am on this Mother's Day to have a mom that passed down the love of music of all sorts to her son. My earliest memories involve hearing the hits of the day playing on the radio that sat by the crib, I can remember the first time I'd heard songs that would soon become part of the fabric of my life. All this eventually led to me being mom's go-to guy for the telephone version of Name That Tune, I get to sit idly by as she hums an assortment of notes that bear no resemblance to any musical scale I've heard before. Though I express exasperation, I don't mind, as mom and I get to share a moment together bonding over music.

Here's to mom and all the mothers out there reading this - enjoy your day! Oh, before I forget... that was The Spinners backing Elton John on Mama Can't Buy You Love - mom, you still owe me twenty bucks. No, I'm not letting this one go, square that bet, pronto!

"The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new." - Rajneesh

"My mother had a great deal of trouble with me, but I think she enjoyed it." - Mark Twain

"Some mothers are kissing mothers and some are scolding mothers, but it is love just the same, and most mothers kiss and scold together." - Pearl S. Buck

"Mothers are fonder than fathers of their children because they are more certain they are their own." - Aristotle

"The one thing children wear out faster than shoes is parents." - John J. Plomp

"For the hand that rocks the cradle - is the hand that rules the world." - William Ross Wallace


The Pioneers: Mother And Child Reunion

Tracy Bonham: Mother Mother

The Beatles: Julia

The Stanley Brothers: A Vision Of Mother

The Police: Mother

King Sunny Ade: My Mother


From Mother's Days past: the great umbilical & hey, mom!web hit counter


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[info]subliculous
2009-05-10 11:48 am UTC (link)
you're a GUY?

:/

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[info]snuh
2009-05-10 11:57 am UTC (link)
Sorry to disappoint!

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[info]subliculous
2009-05-10 04:17 pm UTC (link)
no, it's just...usually i get stuck with fannish women talking about their cats. guys don't last more than about a week on my flist.

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[info]snuh
2009-05-10 07:39 pm UTC (link)
I let [info]carless_sam handle the cat talk in these parts. It's all just words on a screen to me, not much bothers me, outside of Twitter updates on the friend page.

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[info]subliculous
2009-05-10 09:12 pm UTC (link)
btw where's "Mama" by Genesis and "Mother" by Danzig?

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[info]snuh
2009-05-11 06:46 am UTC (link)
Too obvious.

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Mother's Day
(Anonymous)
2009-05-10 02:36 pm UTC (link)
What a great post... equally heart-warming and hysterical - the legacy of music (one I'm proud to have passed on to my own kids) is powerful indeed!

Here are a few more quotes for you:

"Making the decision to have a child - it's momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking outside your body." ~ Elizabeth Stone

"Mothers are not the nameless, faceless stereotypes who appear once a year on a greeting card with their virtues set to prose, but women who have been dealt a hand for life and play each card one at a time the best way they know how. No mother is all good or all bad, all laughing or all serious, all loving or all angry. Ambivalence rushes through their veins." ~ Erma Bombeck

"The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness." ~ Honoré de Balzac


Susan
www.optimisticvoices.blogspot.com

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Re: Mother's Day
[info]snuh
2009-05-10 07:41 pm UTC (link)
I almost used another Erma Bombeck quote - thanks for the kind words! I'm glad to see you've turned your children on to music, what a great gift to pass down. Enjoy your Mother's Day, mom!

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Thanks again
(Anonymous)
2009-05-10 07:24 pm UTC (link)
Nice Mark Twain quote. Also, there is a good reggae version of "Mother & Child Reunion" by The Uniques.

José Lezama Lima, momma's boy and poet extraordinaire, penned this:

"Deseoso es aquel que huye de su madre ... y de los cabezazos con nuestras madres cae el planeta centro de mesa ¿de dónde huimos si, no es de nuestras madres de quien huimos"

(Desirous is he who flees from his mother ... and from the conflicts (lit. head butts) with our mothers the planet falls right in the middle of the table. From whom do we flee if not from our mothers?)

Not that I understand Lezama, but a mother's love is a complicated thing, and even a momma's boy understands that at some point we need to flee from our mothers.

A character, not a good guy, of Uruguayan writer Cristina Peri Rossi, muses: "Solamente las propias madres merecen cariño. Todas las demás son detestables." ("Only our own mothers deserve affection. The rest are detestable.") His wife and his mother-in-law are conspiring against him. He deserves it, or does he?

For some reason, the quote reminds me of a friend of mine, who decided, while her sons were still young, that she could never like their (future) girlfriends. Let's hope she was wrong!

Happy mothers day! I must remember to call mine!

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Re: Thanks again
[info]mcouture
2009-05-10 07:30 pm UTC (link)
I wrote that, but I was in too much of a haste to sign in.

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Re: Thanks again
[info]snuh
2009-05-10 07:45 pm UTC (link)
For some reason, I'd thought it was you. Here's that Elton John song I talked about:
Elton John: Mama Can't Buy You Love

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Re: Thanks again
[info]snuh
2009-05-10 07:44 pm UTC (link)
I love those Lima and Rossi quotes (I think my mom might have read Cristina, she sure acts like it), I wish I was proficient in other languages so I can expand the quote section.

Thanks and call your mom!

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[info]presentpossible
2009-05-11 08:51 pm UTC (link)
one of the best things i learned in first-year philosophy:
never forget that you have been mother to everyone, and everyone has been mother to you
i don't remember who said that though...

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[info]snuh
2009-05-11 09:29 pm UTC (link)
Necessity is the mother of invention - maybe that was what Zappa was thinking.

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a query
(Anonymous)
2009-11-12 09:53 pm UTC (link)
"Making the decision to have a child - it's momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking outside your body.


can anyone tell me the meaning of this line..
plz explain it.

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